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Ep.11| Time is Just an Illusion: Why You're Exactly Where You Need to Be

• Jamie Bareno • Episode 11

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September marks your second new year. A fresh opportunity to reset and achieve meaningful goals before year end. With four months left in 2025, now is the perfect time to make the decision to be the change you want to see, letting go of timeline pressure and embracing the power of the present moment.

• Change doesn't require more time, it requires a decision
• You're not behind or late, you're exactly where you need to be
• Consistency beats perfectionism when moving the needle in your business

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Hola Divas, welcome to the Fiercely you Podcast. I'm Jamie Barino, former corporate banker turned spiritual biz inner work coach and the visionary behind the Spiritual Divas Society and Luxada High-End Mentorship. Every week, I share raw stories, real lessons and the mindset shifts that took me from burnout and breakdowns to leading high-end movements, coaching and mentoring powerful women in their personal and business developments and guiding them to turn their ideas into intellectual property. If you're ready to own your brilliance, lead like a diva and turn your life and business into your greatest masterpiece, you're in the right place. Subscribe now. Turn on notifications because the time is now to lead fierce movements, enter your soft life era and attract magical clients who are ready to work with you. Welcome back, my loves.

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Today is September 1st, 2025. Wow, time has really passed by this year. However, today is a new day to start building momentum in your business. We have four months left for 2025. It's amazing, I think, when we learn to live in this present moment, it really helps us that time is just an illusion and we have the opportunities to do everything that we want in this lifetime at our own pace, with no pressure. That's when you really know that you have everything somewhat under control.

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So tell me, how are you feeling about this? Take a moment to reflect for a second. Let this land. I understand that sometimes this can be difficult, but let me ask you something how many times this year did you say to yourself I'll start tomorrow, I'll figure it out later, or I'll do it when I feel ready, and now, boom, you're in September, right? Oh, my gosh, I know. The year is almost over, however, and maybe you're sitting there wondering did I waste it? Did I do enough? Am I even where I thought I'll be now? And the nice part of this is that you are exactly where you need to be, and I always say this with very close heart that you are exactly where you need to be Because listen, I need you to hear me when I say this, this moment, right here. This is your second new year. This is the moment that you decide okay, I am done paying small, I want more for myself and I'm ready to be the change I want to see.

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Of course, it's like a reset button. Most people never give themselves the permission to even press it right, and you are not most people. You want to use that. That's the good part when you start and you don't worry about timelines. You don't need 12 months to make any changes in your life. You can do it right now, you can do it in one week, you can do it in one week, you can do it in two weeks, and there's indeed four months left. But it's okay. You're never late to start over.

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You know, I see so many people going and changing careers at a later stage in life, and that's the beauty of it. At least they got the courage to start. And that's where I would love for you to focus on. There's 121 days left, and this is the moment that you decide okay, I'm going to be the change that I want to take in. And this is when you analyze your current lifestyle. What do you want to do and where do you want to go? That's the most important part. That's when your brand identity comes to life, when you decide, wow, I want to be different, I want to see a different part of me, I want to do what I said I was going to do, and that makes it a lot more easier. And, of course, it takes work, but when you're doing what you love, you're not working, you are at the playfield, and I've seen seasons where everything I thought was going, exactly that I thought it was supposed to go, but hey, that's life right. But I also learned that when you do something that you love, you're just having a ball, and that's when you gain the confidence. That's when you see the energy rise and you see all of the fruits that comes with all the seeds that you have planted. And I want you to remember this very carefully Change doesn't require more time.

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It just requires a decision, a decision that you make to be the change that you said you were going to do, because words are powerful. We have a strong mindset, but we also have to believe in that strong mindset. I have no doubts that you do not have that. I know that you have it, but sometimes you just have to hear it and also telling yourself tell yourself, I am powerful, I am capable of doing a lot of things and do these amazing projects that I said I was going to do. You have all of it in you.

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Sometimes you just need to have the courage and say, ok, I am ready. And that's when you can decide to start in a clean slate. You start, you prepare yourself and you have the power to proceed. Now let this be a permission to reset. Let's stop carrying around any guilt that you may have things that you didn't do in the beginning of the year. Those are resolutions. But those goals you told yourself you're going to do, it's okay, you still have time. Right, you're not behind, you're not late, you're exactly on time.

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The only thing keeping you stuck is the shame that you keep replaying in your head, the self-sabotaging, and that's what we want to eliminate. We want to be on a positive level and telling yourself that, yes, I did not accomplish that, but it's okay, I'm going to do it now and the moment is right. Now you get a chance to choose again. Right, that's the beautiful part of time, that's the gift. Actually, now most people will really really go in through this spiral. And it's okay, you finish strong and this is your chance to see December 31st and tell yourself, wow, I am proud of all the things that I said I was going to do in September. And look at me now.

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In the last four months, I have accomplished a lot of things, and setting one, two, three goals is what made you become laser focused, right? Just imagine hitting that New Year's Eve and instead of writing all of these lists and resolutions and all of that. You're celebrating that you already did the most heaviest thing that you said you were going to do right, because you placed that moment, you made that decision that you are going to do it. So when you go into the next year, you're already so confident because you worked on those elements those four years. And that's the difference between dragging yourself into a new year with regret and stepping one into the new year with a positive mindset.

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So let's make it simple. As I mentioned, I highly highly recommend see what works for you right, placing between one to three goals. Let's not overwhelm yourself with a to-do list of a mile long, because we know that we all are masters at that and then we feel guilty of not accomplishing them. So we want to set ourselves up for success and as you choose one to three of these amazing, bold goals, you want to set the timeline of each and every one of them before December 31st and then, when you have that in place, you can break them down into small pieces. Small goals, small deadlines.

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So grab a piece of paper, set those one, two, three goals in place and pause if you need. That's the most important part, but do it now so you know that you're going to do it, and then place these with action items, due dates and small action steps. We call them sprints, small sprints that will help you, and then you can visualize them and place them in a sticky note where you can see what you have to do, for example, the one, two, three goals as a reminder. That's what really really helps. One, two, three goals as a reminder that's what really really helps and that's what's going to move the needle these small steps always compound.

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So let's be gentle, and the consistency that you are offering will always beat the perfection and the perfectionist within us, because we, as coaches and as mentors, we are very hard on ourselves. I know, I know that for a fact, that we are very hard and it takes a lot to show up sometimes, but once we cross that bridge, it becomes way easier. So if you're looking for any help private, send me a message, direct me a message, anything that works for you send me a text message for those who have my number, and I will give you any heads up on these amazing goals that we all have in place. This will help us stay connected, be accountability for each other. I mean, I'm here to help and I really love to be of service and those who are on international waters. Of course, it's amazing to see new people and to hear about what others are doing around the world. It's just amazing to be of this service, and also not only that.

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We have a podcast where you start and talk about different topics and things that really light your fire, and everything takes practice. Everything comes and goes the way exactly it has to go. All right, my loves, I'll keep this short today. I just want you to be happy. Remember you are exactly where you need to be and no stress, less stress, less worries and start. Make that decision that you're going to move the needle and finish the year amazingly strong. Let me know how it goes and if you have any questions, place it in the chat box as well and take a moment for you to write the next phase. That will really, really help you. What's the one thing you refuse to leave behind in 2025? That's what's going to really help you move the needle in your business, because the moment you answer that, you already started. All right, my loves, keep it awesome, and I really appreciate each and every one of you. Have a beautiful, beautiful day until next week. See you all, divas. Thank you for tuning into the Fiercely you podcast. If today's episode lit a fire in you, share it with somebody who needs this message and leave a review so more fierce leaders can find this space.

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